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8 Reasons Being Friends with Your Ex Is Overrated

Somewhere along the line, staying friends with your ex went from being a breakup line to a bona fide bragging right. And for some reason, it can feel like you can't have a "good" breakup without being on buddy-buddy terms after you call the romance off. But wanting nothing to do with your ex ever again—yep, even after an amicable breakup—is totally okay. Here are just a few reasons why saying goodbye for good can be totally awesome. 

1. You don't have to worry about him getting judge-y about whomever you date next. Everyone likes having their friends' stamp of approval when it comes to whom they're dating. But your ex's? That's just weird…   

2. You won't have to pretend you're not even a little jealous of his next girlfriend, either. There's nothing wrong with wanting your ex's dating life completely out of sight, out of mind. 

3. You get to skip the awkward realization that there was no basis for friendship there in the first place. Nothing to sour the memories of your relationship like discovering how terribly you get along when you take sex out of the equation. 

4. If you try to stay friends, you'll probably wind up back in bed together at least once. Yeah, backsliding happens. Keeping your ex in your life makes it even more likely.

5. You won't have to deal with a second breakup. Despite your best efforts, befriending your ex has a pretty good chance of ending poorly—and friend breakups are no fun, either. 

6. You won't have to explain him to new partners. "Oh, yeah, we dated for a year and are still great friends. Don't worry, this definitely won't cause any drama." 

7. You don't have to pretend you like his friends anymore. There's only so long you can act like you don't see blatant ball-scratching. 

8. It feels good to cut someone out of your life who wasn't good for you. And you have absolutely no obligation to do otherwise! 

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