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Relationship Advice You WISH You Could Give Your Younger Self

Remember when every crush was a person you could spend the rest of your life with and every heartbreak was the end of the world as you knew it? Yeah, thank goodness that's over. 

When it comes to love, lust, and relationships, there are probably a few things you’d go back and tell your younger self to watch out for if you could—like seeing the red flag when that one guy never introduced you to his friends, or knowing you and your boyfriend would never make it if you wanted to go to law school and he wanted to start a family, like, yesterday. Hey, with age comes wisdom, so we asked women for the relationship advice they would give their younger selves. Check out their genius responses below:  

“If your intuition is telling you it isn't right, listen to it.” —Bridget M.

“Spend more time on yourself. Spend more time eating right, exercising, and less time drinking. Don’t put everything into your relationship, save some time for yourself.” —Charlee S.

“Don't waste your time planning your future around someone who doesn't see you in theirs!” —Chelsea R.

“Be single and enjoy it. Stop fighting for that drama relationship, and spend time getting to know yourself. Your person and you will find each other when the time is right, so stop stressin' over dudes, girl!” —Ruby S.

“Don’t try to be what you think the guy wants you to be. You need to be able to attract someone to the authentic you.” —Kathleen M.

“Sex doesn’t mean love.” —Trisha S.

“You don't always HAVE to be right. Learn to agree to disagree on some points. It will save you a lot of grief if the relationship is really right for you.” —Luella M.

“Your self-worth is not determined by your relationship status, and you need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy in a relationship.” —Maggie K.

“Sometimes we resist taking advice from parents or older generations, but sometimes they’re right because they have known you longer than you have known yourself. Always take that into consideration.” —Anne L.

“You’re not who you’ll be 10 years from now. Look for someone that reflects who you want to be, not necessarily who you are now.” —Jane F.

“The grass isn’t greener on the other side. Hard times will pass.” —Amy C.

“Communicate with respect and kindness. There is nothing clever about being sarcastic. Smile more, laugh together every day, hug for a minimum of 30 seconds several times a day! Show appreciation for what he does for you and your family. Cuddle frequently!” —Sayan S.

“Don’t assume your needs will be met. Ask for what you want/need.” —Leah G.

“Just because your friends are doing it, doesn’t mean you have to. Take your time with your relationship. Marriage and babies are a natural progression, don’t rush it just because everyone else is.” —Juanita T.

 

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